Bonding with your baby during pregnancy

You don’t need to wait until your baby is born to bond with them. Pregnancy can be the perfect time to start forming an attachment with your baby, which is very important for their development once your baby is born.

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What might babies experience in the womb?

As you baby grows in the womb, their senses will begin to develop.

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Sound

Between week 13 and week 16 of pregnancy, your baby’s hearing will develop. They will start to hear your heartbeat and your stomach rumbling.

Between week 25 and week 28 of pregnancy, your baby may react to noises both inside and outside your womb. They may be soothed by the sound of your voice.

Language development

While they are developing your baby may start to recognise certain sounds from your language. Some research suggests that very early language development may start before birth.

Sight

Unborn babies’ eyes start to open between week 25 and week 28. They begin to sense light during weeks 29 to 32. Your baby’s eyes will continue to develop after they are born.

Sensation

Between week 24 and week 25 of pregnancy, your baby may start to be able to feel pain.

How I can bond with my baby during pregnancy?

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Here are some things that might help you and your baby to start forming a bond before birth:

talk and sing to your baby
gently touch, rub or massage your belly
respond to your baby’s kicks by gently nudging your belly
play relaxing or calming music to your baby.

It is also important to relax, look after yourself and try not to stress. You can:

give yourself time to reflect
go for a walk
have a warm bath
write a diary or stories to the baby about what you are experiencing

Your partner or a close friend may be helpful if you are feeling stressed.

How partners and caregivers can bond with my baby?

If you are the partner, you can also bond with the baby by:

massaging the baby bump — if the pregnant person is happy for you to do so
feeling the baby kicking as often as you can
attending ultrasound appointments
reading and talking with the baby so they get used to your voice

Talking to other parents can help. Share your thoughts and feelings and allow them to share theirs about their pregnancy and birth experience.

It can also help to talk about the birth plan with the baby’s mother and meet the maternity team. The more confidence you have in the pregnancy and birth process, the easier it will be for you to bond with the baby.

If you’re planning to be a support person at the birth, go to the prenatal classes as well.

How can my other children bond with my baby?

By preparing your toddler or child for the upcoming birth, you can help them bond with the baby. You can:

talk to them about the baby
read stories to them about pregnancy and babies
invite them to touch your belly to feel the baby kicking

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You could involve your child in preparation for the birth by:

taking them shopping for baby supplies
letting them help set up the nursery

Your child may also like to put a piece of their art on the wall of the baby’s room.

Your feelings and the baby

You may find that instead of being excited about the birth of your baby, you are feeling stressed and confused. Your feelings during pregnancy can affect the baby too. For example, if you are feeling stressed, the baby’s heart rate will respond to this and might increase.

It can help to talk to someone about your feelings. Try to increase your support network and meet other pregnant people to share your experiences.

You should visit your doctor or midwife as soon as you can if: