I’ll never forget the first time I had one bite of a brownie and stopped—and though I longed for that ability for many years, I didn’t even realize it! It wasn’t intentional, it’s what naturally happened about a year into my journey giving up dieting and addressing eating psychology instead.
If you’re reading this, perhaps you’re interested in learning how to leave one bite of food on your plate, specifically from a psychological approach. As an eating psychology coach that knows first-hand what compulsive eating is like and the strength it takes to stop, I have plenty of tips to help.
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In this post, you’ll learn why it’s normal to struggle with compulsively finishing all the food on your plate and the steps you can take to start leaving one bite of food, or more, behind. At the end, I’ll cover all the benefits of this mindful eating practice.
Why Is It Hard to Leave One Bite of Food Behind?
Leaving one bite of food on your plate can be a symbol of overcoming the compulsion behind compulsive eating, or it can be a mindless habit. For anyone that struggles with compulsive eating, leaving one bite of food behind isn’t a mindless nor a casual occurrence—it’s something we want, perhaps eagerly, but struggle to attain when compulsion is overwhelming.
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Here are some common reasons for struggling with leaving one bite of food on your plate:
- Emotional Eating: When emotional eating is involved, it can cause a compulsion to finish all the food on the plate. Interestingly, emotional eating can be driven by both negative and positive emotion, such as finishing all the cake on your plate during a happy celebration or polishing off an entire bag of chips during a stressful time.[1]
- Fear of Food Waste: Many people feel guilty about wasting food, which can stem from lessons learned in childhood or awareness of global hunger issues. This guilt can make it challenging to leave even a small amount of food uneaten.
- Fast Eating: Fast eating can often lead to a reluctance to leave even a single bite of food behind, as it bypasses our body’s natural satiety signals, making it harder to recognize when we’re truly full.
- Food Addiction: Research shows that highly palatable foods (i.e. “junk foods” or “comfort foods” high in fat, carbs, sugar, and/or salt) can affect the brain’s reward circuitry, leading to addictive-like eating behaviors.[2] Food addiction can make it difficult to leave even one bite behind due to intense cravings and a loss of control over eating.
- Binge Eating: Binge eating, characterized by consuming large amounts of food in a short period, can also make it particularly difficult to leave even one bite of food behind, as it also involves a loss of control over eating.
The distinction between food addiction and binge eating disorder is nuanced and highly controversial, with some overlapping behaviors but differing underlying mechanisms.[3], [4] Fortunately, we don’t need to get caught up in semantics.
Anyone that knows first-hand the struggle of compulsive eating knows the bottom line: it’s compulsive, and you can’t “just stop” when someone tells you to. It requires psychological skill-building, which you’re about to learn.
How to Occasionally Leave One Bite of Food Behind
Before we dive in, please know that leaving one bite of food behind on your plate should never come from a place of restraint. Restrained eating is associated with overeating, and it is counterproductive to the goal of healing your relationship with food.[5]
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However, if you’re the type of person that struggles with always feeling stuffed after finishing all the food on your plate, then leaving one bite of food behind can help you learn how to stop eating when full—or at least work your way towards that goal.
Here are some steps you can take to work towards an intuitive, mindful relationship with food where leaving one bite of food on your plate becomes accessible:
1. Give Up the Food Rules
To begin the journey of occasionally leaving one bite of food behind, start by giving up restrictive dieting. Restrictive dieting often leads to a cycle of deprivation and overeating, as the ‘forbidden fruit’ effect kicks in—where restriction heightens the desire for the very foods you’re trying to avoid.[6] This can create an emotional charge around eating, making it feel like a high-stakes activity where every bite counts.
By stepping away from dieting and giving yourself permission to eat the foods you love and enjoy—while listening to your hunger and fullness—you can neutralize your relationship with foods so that all foods are equal. Over time, leaving a bite of food on your plate can become a natural byproduct of listening to your fullness and knowing that all your favorite foods will still be there when hunger returns.
2. Prepare for the Stages of Giving Up Dieting
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